1) It’s a red flag when they repeatedly lower your vibe.
2) It’s a red flag when they use your love as their self-love.
3) It’s a red flag when you feel lonely in their company.
4) It’s a red flag when they attack you for disagreeing with them.
5) It’s a red flag when they call you crazy after failing to gaslight you.
6) It’s a red flag when they support your trauma, but not your healing.
7) It’s a red flag when they say it’s okay but throw it in your face later.
8) It’s a red flag when they say they’re interested but show a lack of effort.
9) It’s a red flag when they apologize without changing their behavior.
10) It’s a red flag when they apologize for upsetting you, but not for hurting you.
11) It’s a red flag when they give you all of the right words and none of the right actions.
12) It’s a red flag when they focus on your reaction or boundaries instead of their disrespect.
13) It’s a red flag when they focus on your trust issues with them instead of their betrayal.
14) It’s a red flag when they disappear from your rock bottom and appear on your mountain top.
15) It’s a red flag when they repeatedly trigger your mental health and then blame you for your negative reaction.
16) It’s a red flag when they say “After all I’ve done for you” to guilt-trip you, control you and make you prove your worth.
17) It’s a red flag when they repeatedly disrespect you and want you to be the bigger person to let their bullshit slide.
18) It’s a red flag when they make you feel like you’re holding resentment against them when you’re sticking to your boundaries.
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